Taking Chances

“Nothing ventured, nothing gained.”  We live in a world that is, in so many ways, about maintenance.  Keeping the society running, and the gears turning.  That, however, is not what art is about, and does not need to be what anyone’s life is.  It is important to recognize that if everybody decided to risk it all and change the world with billions of different ideas, one of two things would happen: the world would be drastically different, or the world would fall apart. 

That’s what risk is.  More than that, it is the understanding and acceptance that not everything you do will work, but something might.

In art, it means making the uncommon choice, and challenging yourself and those around you to create something truly unique.  Sometimes, your end product will be terrible, confusing, and highly criticized.  And that’s okay.  We, in the arts, have an uncommon gift that we often overlook, or do not want to admit: when we fail, people don’t usually get hurt.

That is precisely why we have an actual RESPONSIBILITY to take chances.  Impressionists took a chance and gave the world a new way of thinking from the realistic portraits that came before then.  Modern art just...well, was modern art, and was certainly a reflection of the risks and realities of a changing time.  Every movement is a risk that, ultimately, expands the minds of the society that motivated it.

As usual, I do not wish to simply speak to the specific effects of this concept on my field, but I’d like to try and convey a wider message to those who might read this. 

Life is about risk.  Every time you find yourself faced with a difficult choice, be completely honest with yourself and ask one simple question.

“What’s the best thing that could happen?”  Not the worst.  Look for the best.  Believe in the success of the risk, because that’s what you care about more anyway.

Ask that girl/guy out.  Take that job that you really want in another city.  Sing that song at karaoke.

Don’t let the fear of failure stop you from doing anything; accept that you will fall many times in life, but you still need to get back up and keep running as hard as you can towards what you want.

Jerry Siegel and Joe Shuster took a chance in 1938...and created the first superhero.  I'm just saying.

The Business of Friendship

            Recently, I was fortunate enough to attend my first Helen Hayes Awards in Washington, DC (I say first because I’ll be back…and I’m going to win one eventually, mark my words).  While there, it became apparent how incredibly fortunate I am to work in the arts, surrounded by passionate people.  As much networking and business talk happened throughout the evening, what was clear we were not just celebrating with coworkers, but with friends.

            This is an industry full of talented people who could apply their skills and minds to other fields if they wanted, but it is the passion that drives them to work in theatre-if you were under the impression we did it for the money…I want to know where you are getting your information.

            Every industry is all about your relationships.  Talent and skill, no matter the level, will always go that much further if you are a person whom others like to work with.  Not only that, but you will be happier yourself, to be able to share your work with others who care about it as much as you is an experience I wish for everyone I know.  It did not occur to me how much of a difference that makes until I was in a lobby talking to friends, and every time I saw a familiar face from an old project, I was genuinely excited and interested to know what they were doing, instead of faking a smile and nodding along.

            Now, it is true that you will not get along with everyone.  You will butt heads and have bad experiences, and that is a risk you take when passions and ideas converge-they don’t always mix well.  However, I encourage you to never back away from those fights.  Always commit yourself to your views and ideas, and see conversations through to the end.  I’m also not saying you have to approach every conversation as a fight, because that attitude will also not benefit anyone.  Be honest and advocate for yourself, do not be afraid to upset someone in the pursuit of a better idea.  It is my belief that as long as the goal of a conversation remains about the idea or project, and does not devolve into something personal, then you will gain more respect from, and for, the other person. 

            We work in the business of crafting passion and abstract ideas, and if you fully commit yourself to every project you are on, and engage those around you with the intention of creating the best outcome, then when the dust settles, you are all going to be happy for the whole process as you admire your work over a few beers at opening.

            This is inspired on a personal level because I will also soon be moving, relocating to Austin, Texas to get my MFA from University of Texas in the upcoming fall.  And when we look to the future, it is inevitable that we look back with “graduation goggles” (to borrow a term from my favorite sitcom, ‘How I Met Your Mother’), and I can honestly say that I have been truly lucky to have met and worked with so many people, and made so many friends in the DC theatre community.  It is not a question of ‘IF’, but “WHEN” I will return to work them all again. 

            That said, I do still have at least two more productions in the area before I go anywhere, so I should probably postpone the sentimentality a little bit.

The 28th Annual Helen Hayes Awards at the Warner Theatre

THERE’S NO MONEY IN THE ARTS…And I’m Okay With That

Now, before I get stoned and outcast, I should explain that I am not a communist, anarchist…I like capitalism, I think free enterprise is pretty groovy.  It should also be said that I fully encourage everyone and anyone to donate to your local arts community- especially arts education, because that is absolutely crucial.

            To further contradict myself, I am not arguing the point that less money leads artists to be creative with available resources.  That is absolutely true, and I am constantly amazed by the innovation and spirit that my peers and myself are able to summon when necessity is pushing a project forward.  However, a well-funded project with lots of resources allows a vision to become a reality without compromise, and it is also fulfilling to see that product.

            Confused now?  Good.

            As a freelancer, I am my own boss and run my own business as a scenic and production designer for entertainment and events.  I do not view my chosen path as enlightened, and I will not shepherd the lemmings from their corporate shackles to join me on the plains of freedom and unsupervised…

            Because there is not a lot of money out here, and it is not an easy life.  It is also not the most important job in the world.  It is my calling, and a lifestyle that works for me, and I could not see myself doing anything else-but I will never dare to presume that any one job is more important than another.  It would not work for doctors, lawyers, bankers, and so many others whose work is crucial to our success and survival as a society.  It is, like all of those professions, a part of the whole that is our society.

            So when I say I am glad there is not a lot of money in the arts, it is because a career in the arts, or a career as any independent business, is one that should be entered into out of love and a desire to follow what you know you are passionate about.  Do not strike out on your own because you’ve failed, been fired, or are scared.  Forge your own path if you are going to create one that you think the world needs to see, not because you are afraid of what lies on the paths already ahead of you. 

            ‘Independence’ should not be a way to dress up ‘unaccountable,’ or ‘unwilling to try.’ 

            There are lots of reasons to be on your own.  There are also many reasons to trust the many industries and businesses that exist, or attempt to fix those that are broken instead of leaving the future in a wasteland of scared pioneers among wreckage that may have been saved if we’d tried.

            Find the path that is right for you, not the path that is easiest.

            That said, please like Patrick W. Lord Designs, my business page on facebook, and hire me for your entertainment or event ventures, I’m a small-business owner, I mean…c’mon.

Ryan Gosling gets it (that’s for you, ladies).

The Only Constant in Life is Change

            “The only constant in life is change.”  This is an entry that may end up being more personally telling than intended, but I don’t know.  I’m not attempting to write about myself, is what I’m saying, I believe I’m putting into words a feeling that we, young people in various careers, experience-and may  be particularly true to those of us who work in the arts.

            I am 23 years old, have a great career, great friends, and am in a wonderful situation.  However, I am hoping to move and enter an entirely different phase of my life.  This was inspired, in part, because I began to feel comfortable.  I began to notice that I was no longer pushing myself, and I was not living up to who I could be.  Was I a lazy ne’er-do-well (like that?  It’s that kind of clever language that keeps you coming back)?  No.  But I was allowing myself to become content, and at this young age, that is not something I want.  I don’t want to be settling, or comfortable.  I want to be challenged, and growing.  I want to hunt new opportunities, and experience new things while I can.

            I say ‘while I can’ because I am currently unencumbered.  I am not dating anyone.  I do not have a regular job.  My family is spread out, literally, across the globe.  Hell, I’m not even under a lease.  At this stage in my life, I have absolutely nothing holding me to anywhere, and thus, nothing holding me back.  This is not meant as an attack on those I know who ARE settling down, have significant others, and are finding stability in their lives.  I applaud you.  Perhaps this is the part where my point begins to veer towards my specific choice to work in the arts.

            I should mention, I’m writing this particular entry from my hotel room in Seattle, a country away from Washington, D.C. (though I am in Washington…I don’t like this, it’s confusing), where I’ve come to call home.  I’m a creature who needs change and stimulation in their life.  Those new and varied experiences affect my vision, and my art, and thus, my work.  As people, we are shaped by experiences, and so it only serves to reason that the more varied those experiences are, the more interesting our shape will become.  However, I recognize the other argument, and know that many people are in fields of work that require devotion, and commitment to consistency.

            I am not implying a state of travel and flux creates cooler people, and stability is for the boring and dull.  If anything, I am expressing how thankful I am that my work allows me to live in such a state of fluidity.  I love the fact that I will be moving to an entirely new part of the country in about 6 months, and cannot wait to see what will come from that experience.  I cannot wait to see what kind of designer, and person, I will be because of it.

            Am I saying I will never settle down, and become a 21^st century nomad?  No.  That would be awesome, but no.  I’m one of the few people who can comfortably say that I cannot wait until I’m in my 30s, and, with any luck, have found the woman I’m going to spend my life with, and live a slightly less crazy life.  I’ll say it-I look forward to having kids some day.  But knowing that is part of my future does not mean I am going to chase it.  I’m going to be a better husband, and a better father, having lived as full and experienced life as I can. 

            Live your life for yourself, and never stop challenging yourself.  Trust that your life will work out how it is supposed to.  Life will surprise you with so many glorious and beautiful things.  I promise.

            If not, I’ll buy you a beer.

            And now, here are a couple funny pictures I found on the interwebs.

A Candle Which Burns Twice as Bright, but Half as Long (Part 3)

Finally, we come to the final part of this little guide to helping you stay sane and happy about your work- taking care of your spirit.

            Oddly enough, for such an abstract idea, the answer is quite simple and straightforward.  It comes down to three elements that you should try to incorporate into your life and work (and you probably already do).

            One, surround yourself with supportive and curious people.  I’m not saying that if you work in the arts, you should only hang out with other artists and talk about how the man is keeping you down.  If you work in finance-I hope and pray you have many, many friends who don’t also do that, so that you don’t end up an intolerable tool.  And so on.  It’s not about what the people in your life do, or how similar it is to you-in fact, more variation is better (wait until I talk about the third element).  The most important thing about the people in your life is that they should support you.  They should build you up, and be there for you because, as anyone who is not suffering from a severe case of denial will tell you, life gets hard sometimes.  Just does.  At those times, you need people.  However, don’t need your friends.  Want them around.  Be interested in them.  Don’t selfishly build yourself a pool of people who support you, and not return the favor. 

People are not a safety net, you and your friends are all just threads, and you are much stronger when woven together.

Two, talk about your passion.  If you get excited and talk a mile a minute every time somebody asks you about what you do, it will remind you how much you love it.  Remember those moments, and the things you say, at times when you find yourself up against a wall.  Just talk through it all.  Since you have people in your life (see how I tie things together?) who are honestly curious, they will be happy to listen.  Talk about the good, talk about the bad, but just do your best to talk honestly.

Every thought is a spark, but if it never touches the air, it can never become a flame.

Finally, quite simply, do other stuff.  I talk about diving into work to keep your mind stimulated, but you will need to come up for air if you don’t want to drown.  Making your life all about work is the fastest way to burn out, and continue to struggle through it to the point where you will begin to hate what your life is about. 

This can be prevented easily by just developing other parts of your life.  Make a point of finding two friends, each with very different interests, and try and do one activity with each of them on a regular basis (i.e. golf with a buddy, hiking with an ex…just kidding, don’t do that, they might kill you.  Seriously, bad idea).  This will help you unwind, and take your mind off of work.  T            There is a reason they call a happy life a “full” life, it is just up to you to decide what to fill it with.

So concludes my three-part advice section on how to stay fit, engaged, and happy with your work.  If that none of this helps, you can always turn to the immortal words of a hero of mine.

A Candle Which Burns Twice as Bright, but Half as Long (Part 2)

I’ve already introduced the concept behind this segment (which is 3 parts, so only one more after this one), so I will just dive right into it.

            In order to keep your energy and interest up in anything, it is important that you keep yourself mentally stimulated.  No matter how devoted a person is to their work, it will eventually wear on them.  What I suggest is finding time, every day (or every other), to take a break from your various tasks and projects, and explore the very root of why you are doing what you’re doing, and try to tap into that in a conscious way.

            As I write this, the SOPA and PIPA Acts are an especially relevant topic, and so I will provide you a link to learn more about them, and decide for yourself what side to fall upon. 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:CongressLookup?new=yes

http://americancensorship.org/

Why is that a relevant segue?  I’d be a fool if I didn’t admit that one of the easiest way to get back in touch with a variety of passions is the internet, and how it provides such an extraordinary device for exploring so many things (just…don’t spend too much time watching cats on youtube or poking people on facebook…please)

Now that that little rant is out of the way, back to the subject at hand.  Find time to connect with your passion.  There are times when we “need” this, and we take a break to go on a binge of inspiration.  That’s natural.  What I propose, however, is finding a way to regularly stimulate yourself and your passion.  Continue to fan and feed the fire, instead of bringing it back to life as it dies.  It may not be as exciting, but the consistency of your devotion will make you happier.

I cannot tell you how to connect.  Read some blogs about politics if you work on the Hill.  Check the Hopkins news releases to find out about new technology and discoveries if you’re in medicine.  Go to a museum if you love art.  Listen to a new band if you are a musician.  Do something that makes sense, and makes you smile.  Do something that does not feel like work, but keeps you working.

Never stop asking yourself “why?”  If you continue to be able to answer that question, every day of your life, you will know and believe in yourself and your work more than you ever thought possible.  That is the simplest, and surest way to keep your mind healthy and growing.

Today, I leave you with a few of my favorite pieces of art, discovered in those moments where I needed to connect to my own inspiration over the years.

A Candle Which Burns Twice as Bright, but Half as Long (Part 1)

            Burning the midnight oil.  Burning the candle at both ends.  Phrases that those who are passionate about their work are all too familiar with.  However, what do they get you in the end?

            Burnt out.

            I wanted to take a moment, after the holidays (and a prolonged illness I had, which further contributed to the posting delay), to talk about the importance of taking care of one’s self.  Your mind, body, and spirit are your trade, and so it should be common sense that you do everything you can to ensure that they are protected, well-nourished, and will continue to serve you for your entire life. 

            This post is inspired by the new year, and my personal resolution to recommit myself to taking care of my person.  I’m young, and should be in much better shape than I am (and thankfully I recognize that now, while it’s easy to change).  Additionally, I’ve incurred a number of stupid injuries from work due to carelessness in the earlier years of my education, and as my career continues to move forward, I am more acutely aware of those younger than me who make similar mistakes that I did.  Finally, I am currently in the midst of a month which has come with a great deal of stress from a great deal of sources (an all too common and familiar problem), and so I’m making a conscious effort to ensure that the stress does not wear on my passion.

            So let’s break this down into three parts: body, mind, and spirit, and discuss how you can help take care of them, in a way that is relevant to those of us who work in the arts, and beyond.

            Body:

            Working out is the obvious advice one can give.  I have never loved working out, until I discovered how valuable it is as a stress reliever.  I do not have a routine for working out (though I’m trying to build one), because a regular schedule is about as difficult to find as a unicorn with a degree in physics from MIT.  However, I still try to find 30 minutes every day, to run, stretch, do yoga, or even basics such as sit ups and push ups.  If you think that’s daunting, think about the many hours of work you do, and how you inevitably need a break.  Make one of those breaks a break to work out.  Especially if you find your energy level dropping, a quick work out is the best way to get yourself up and going again.

            Eating right is the other part of the challenge.  Late nights, long rehearsals, and high stress levels almost always lead to snacking and fast food.  I know, and part of the reason I’m putting this down on paper is to hold myself accountable, since I can’t exactly say “do as I say, not as I do, as I eat this cheeseburger at 3am.”  While some degree of slips are inevitable, I challenge everyone to cook their own dinners, or bring pre-prepared salads, and do this for as long as possible.  Very quickly, you’ll notice that the temptation for those unhealthier foods goes away, as you really do feel better, and operate better.

            Finally, sleep.  I know, I know, “what is this ‘sleep’ you speak of?”  Obviously, some sleepless nights are unavoidable.  That’s life.  All I am encouraging each and every person to do is to avoid them where possible, and to be conscious of what you really need.  It is not a contest of “who can do the most shows with the least sleep,” because everybody loses in that scenario.  Be well rested, so you can do your job to the best of your ability.

            Taking care of your body through diet, exercise, and proper rest helps prevent you from getting sick or injured, and keeps you working longer and more effectively.  As has been a recurring motif in this blog, I encourage you to take this advice as needed, but more importantly, to just take a moment and consider what it means to you.  The more conscious you are of what your body needs, the better you can take care of it, and the better it can serve you.

This is not me.  Yet.